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		<title>By: Zoë</title>
		<link>http://www.essentialprose.com/change-choose/pimples-and-danger-of-assumptions/comment-page-1#comment-1230</link>
		<dc:creator>Zoë</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 11:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Elyse - Yep, I think we need much less than we think...!

@ Ken - Very true, that assumptions are not all bad or wrong. As you say, it&#039;s very important to at least understand what assumptions we hold, because it means we are being more conscious. Assumptions are useful, of course, for us to function without needing to figure everything out every time we see it... but as all automatic things, they can&#039;t always fit! Especially after long use...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Elyse &#8211; Yep, I think we need much less than we think&#8230;!</p>
<p>@ Ken &#8211; Very true, that assumptions are not all bad or wrong. As you say, it&#8217;s very important to at least understand what assumptions we hold, because it means we are being more conscious. Assumptions are useful, of course, for us to function without needing to figure everything out every time we see it&#8230; but as all automatic things, they can&#8217;t always fit! Especially after long use&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ken Allan</title>
		<link>http://www.essentialprose.com/change-choose/pimples-and-danger-of-assumptions/comment-page-1#comment-1227</link>
		<dc:creator>Ken Allan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 09:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kia ora Zoë

Assumptions are powerful beliefs.

Like any belief a person holds, an assumption can be deep rooted, like a carrot in the ground, and so can be difficult to shift. With time, an assumption, like the carrot, grows deeper.

Not all assumptions are erroneous, however, and like any belief, an assumption can be based on experience and deduction that may well be valid.

The point when an assumption is put in doubt by its owner is a turning point. While this may not mean change in what&#039;s believed, arriving at that stage indicates a facile property of the mind of the owner.

The real key to using assumptions appropriately is in having routines for testing them - regularly. Your &lt;a href=&quot;http://users.tpg.com.au/users/tps-seti/baloney.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;baloney detector kit&lt;/a&gt; should always be switched on when making a first assumption and it should be left on as long as possible while that assumption is under scrutiny.

Practicing scientists use this &lt;i&gt;a priori&lt;/a&gt;. Failure to heed a signal from it simply permits the assumption to grow deeper. If it is growing in the wrong place, with time it becomes more and more difficult to uproot.

Invalid assumptions are best transplanted as early as possible.

Catchya later
from Middle-earth

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ken Allan´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://newmiddle-earth.blogspot.com/2009/03/posturing-barrier-to-learning.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Posturing - a Barrier to Learning&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kia ora Zoë</p>
<p>Assumptions are powerful beliefs.</p>
<p>Like any belief a person holds, an assumption can be deep rooted, like a carrot in the ground, and so can be difficult to shift. With time, an assumption, like the carrot, grows deeper.</p>
<p>Not all assumptions are erroneous, however, and like any belief, an assumption can be based on experience and deduction that may well be valid.</p>
<p>The point when an assumption is put in doubt by its owner is a turning point. While this may not mean change in what&#8217;s believed, arriving at that stage indicates a facile property of the mind of the owner.</p>
<p>The real key to using assumptions appropriately is in having routines for testing them &#8211; regularly. Your <a href="http://users.tpg.com.au/users/tps-seti/baloney.html" rel="nofollow">baloney detector kit</a> should always be switched on when making a first assumption and it should be left on as long as possible while that assumption is under scrutiny.</p>
<p>Practicing scientists use this <i>a priori. Failure to heed a signal from it simply permits the assumption to grow deeper. If it is growing in the wrong place, with time it becomes more and more difficult to uproot.</p>
<p>Invalid assumptions are best transplanted as early as possible.</p>
<p>Catchya later<br />
from Middle-earth</p>
<p><abbr><em>Ken Allan´s last blog post..<a href="http://newmiddle-earth.blogspot.com/2009/03/posturing-barrier-to-learning.html" rel="nofollow">Posturing &#8211; a Barrier to Learning</a></em></abbr></i></p>
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		<title>By: Elyse</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elyse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 04:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to tell you I have been washing my face with bar soap every other day and the rest of the week just hot water. My boyfriend always just uses hot water and has really clear skin. I am trying to cut out moisturizer too. So far it&#039;s looking better!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Elyse´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lacklustermusings.com/2009/03/18/spring-break-part-2-not-as-smiley/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Spring Break - Part 2 (Not as smiley)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to tell you I have been washing my face with bar soap every other day and the rest of the week just hot water. My boyfriend always just uses hot water and has really clear skin. I am trying to cut out moisturizer too. So far it&#8217;s looking better!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Elyse´s last blog post..<a href="http://lacklustermusings.com/2009/03/18/spring-break-part-2-not-as-smiley/" rel="nofollow">Spring Break &#8211; Part 2 (Not as smiley)</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Zoë</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zoë</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 16:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Writer Dad - Good to know that you keep shedding assumptions... hope we&#039;re all on that path! 

@ Nuno - I almost brought the whole &quot;assuming makes an ass out of u and me&quot; into the headline of this piece, but I dropped it in the end :)

@ Matthew - HA! I hate when that happens.

@ Trina - Wow, that&#039;s a lovely and powerful example of shedding assumptions...

@ writersresort - Yep, that phrase is a good one to remember...

@ Alex - That&#039;s a really good point about the line between good optimism and dangerous optimism. I generally have a really positive outlook, so I completely agree that we have to make sure that doesn&#039;t fall into laziness.

@ the funky duckling - Life would be boring if we didn&#039;t just let loose a bit :). 

@ Bamboo - So true. It&#039;s really easy to assume what you don&#039;t have is better, or flawless, or easier. It&#039;s crazy to see a few small details completely shape an image of someone. 

@ Jenx67 - Yea, it&#039;s harder to think of times when they&#039;ve helped...

@ Lisa - That&#039;s exactly my theory too! Serves me well so far :).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Writer Dad &#8211; Good to know that you keep shedding assumptions&#8230; hope we&#8217;re all on that path! </p>
<p>@ Nuno &#8211; I almost brought the whole &#8220;assuming makes an ass out of u and me&#8221; into the headline of this piece, but I dropped it in the end <img src='http://www.essentialprose.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Matthew &#8211; HA! I hate when that happens.</p>
<p>@ Trina &#8211; Wow, that&#8217;s a lovely and powerful example of shedding assumptions&#8230;</p>
<p>@ writersresort &#8211; Yep, that phrase is a good one to remember&#8230;</p>
<p>@ Alex &#8211; That&#8217;s a really good point about the line between good optimism and dangerous optimism. I generally have a really positive outlook, so I completely agree that we have to make sure that doesn&#8217;t fall into laziness.</p>
<p>@ the funky duckling &#8211; Life would be boring if we didn&#8217;t just let loose a bit <img src='http://www.essentialprose.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . </p>
<p>@ Bamboo &#8211; So true. It&#8217;s really easy to assume what you don&#8217;t have is better, or flawless, or easier. It&#8217;s crazy to see a few small details completely shape an image of someone. </p>
<p>@ Jenx67 &#8211; Yea, it&#8217;s harder to think of times when they&#8217;ve helped&#8230;</p>
<p>@ Lisa &#8211; That&#8217;s exactly my theory too! Serves me well so far <img src='http://www.essentialprose.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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		<title>By: LisaNewton</title>
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		<dc:creator>LisaNewton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I try not to assume anything anymore.  My theory is &quot;Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.&quot;

Loved your face washing example...........:)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;LisaNewton´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TravelinLocal/~3/cpmvxwPAH4U/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Texting and the Sand Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I try not to assume anything anymore.  My theory is &#8220;Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.&#8221;</p>
<p>Loved your face washing example&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..:)</p>
<p><abbr><em>LisaNewton´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TravelinLocal/~3/cpmvxwPAH4U/" rel="nofollow">Texting and the Sand Box</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: jenx67</title>
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		<dc:creator>jenx67</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:08:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve made so many assumptions over the years. They&#039;ve all gotten me into trouble.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;jenx67´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/DMKG/~3/2EXe3tLkNgg/my-mercy-walk-gen-x-heroin-chekov-and.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My Mercy Walk: Gen X, Heroin, Chekov and Jesus&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve made so many assumptions over the years. They&#8217;ve all gotten me into trouble.</p>
<p><abbr><em>jenx67´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/DMKG/~3/2EXe3tLkNgg/my-mercy-walk-gen-x-heroin-chekov-and.html" rel="nofollow">My Mercy Walk: Gen X, Heroin, Chekov and Jesus</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest - PunIntended</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest - PunIntended</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 20:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes people will assume that others live these perfect glamorous lives based on only a few facts. 

It really doesn&#039;t make sense. You can&#039;t know the life of another based on only a couple facts, so why assume anything?

Assumptions are really silly. And I like your approach with how assumptions can be silly.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Bamboo Forest - PunIntended´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://punintended.com/blog/clowns-are-downright-creepy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Clowns are Downright Creepy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes people will assume that others live these perfect glamorous lives based on only a few facts. </p>
<p>It really doesn&#8217;t make sense. You can&#8217;t know the life of another based on only a couple facts, so why assume anything?</p>
<p>Assumptions are really silly. And I like your approach with how assumptions can be silly.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Bamboo Forest &#8211; PunIntended´s last blog post..<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/clowns-are-downright-creepy/" rel="nofollow">Clowns are Downright Creepy</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: the funky duckling</title>
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		<dc:creator>the funky duckling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 14:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I assume I always make an ass of myself, so I might as well be myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I assume I always make an ass of myself, so I might as well be myself.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Charchar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Charchar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Argh, acne, I feel your pain.. I went as far as to go to a dermatologist and get prescriptions to a kind of steroid that killed any chance of my skin producing excess oil, so now instead of tanning, I burn (which my middle eastern heritage screams out at). No pimples for 5+ years though, whoo!

As for assumptions, I assume the best in everything.. Which is often dangerous, rather than optimistic.. 

Best example is that I assume my skills in various creative passions I have will stick around even if I don&#039;t practice.. dangerous.

Interesting how personal experiences (the bad kind) can shape the way one goes about making assumptions of awfulness. And assumptions of the pettier things. which is either optimisim or numbness -- either way, I&#039;m zit free!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Alex Charchar´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/retinart/~3/t8mZ9yPgC_c/links-ceramic-letters-with-floral-patterns&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Links: Ceramic Letters &amp; Flowers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Argh, acne, I feel your pain.. I went as far as to go to a dermatologist and get prescriptions to a kind of steroid that killed any chance of my skin producing excess oil, so now instead of tanning, I burn (which my middle eastern heritage screams out at). No pimples for 5+ years though, whoo!</p>
<p>As for assumptions, I assume the best in everything.. Which is often dangerous, rather than optimistic.. </p>
<p>Best example is that I assume my skills in various creative passions I have will stick around even if I don&#8217;t practice.. dangerous.</p>
<p>Interesting how personal experiences (the bad kind) can shape the way one goes about making assumptions of awfulness. And assumptions of the pettier things. which is either optimisim or numbness &#8212; either way, I&#8217;m zit free!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Alex Charchar´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/retinart/~3/t8mZ9yPgC_c/links-ceramic-letters-with-floral-patterns" rel="nofollow">Links: Ceramic Letters &amp; Flowers</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: writersresort</title>
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		<dc:creator>writersresort</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 10:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>is, sorry... :P

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;writersresort´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.blog.wordpress.com/2009/03/04/february-wrap-up-2/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;February Wrap-Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>is, sorry&#8230; <img src='http://www.essentialprose.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>writersresort´s last blog post..<a href="http://en.blog.wordpress.com/2009/03/04/february-wrap-up-2/" rel="nofollow">February Wrap-Up</a></em></abbr></p>
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